They say that after you cry there comes a peaceful period and so, desperation is probably the highest level of sadness. Sadness also involves depression but this is a more serious thing. Many people try to be strong when something happens and they say „ Now is Not a Time for Sadness and Despair”. It`s very brave to try to stay strong and restrain yourself from crying. This usually happens when someone dear dies and the parents or the grown-ups try to be strong for the rest of the family. Crying is very good sometimes. Crying makes you feel better afterwords, it can release the tension you have gathered in time and it can give you the feeling of ease.
Another example when the line „ Now it`s Not a Time for Sadness and Despair” can also be used is when there is a difficult situation, when a problem occurs and needs to be solved as soon as possible. Instead of losing your calm and your thoughts, the best thing is to think things through and take some decisions. There are many people with a more sensitive heart that crack immediately because they just don`t know what to do next.
When people become desperate they lose the sense of real things, they do something out of impulse and they risk making a mistake. That is why many say Now is Not a Time for Sadness and Despair. When difficult moments in life appear why have to know when to take some actions and when not to. Life is all about bad or good surprises, life is challenging and problems are at every corner we just need to know how to deal with them. In the end, people go though many emotions during their life time, despair and sadness are some of them. We are all sensitive, we all cry, we all feel pain. It`s good to cry sometimes, but keeping all your feelings inside is not good either so , sometimes it`s best to let it all go with a crying spell.